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Who Are You When You Take Yourself Apart?

Four men, one question—when you rebuild yourself from scratch, what's the part that stays?

Four men, three of whom had never been in the same room, sat down on a Monday to talk about reinvention—and ended up somewhere none of them planned. Lawrence Winnerman is joined by Aidan Wharton, returning friend Ben Greene, and a brand-new face, Chuck Palmer, for a conversation that starts with a stainless-steel chain bought on a whim and somehow arrives at the question underneath all the others: when you take yourself apart and rebuild, what’s the one thing that stays? There’s a 62-year-old who reinvented from suburban husband to cultural observer, a 26-year-old who’s already lived more lives than people twice his age, a former Broadway actor who just officially walked away from acting, and a host who once stood on the edge of something and heard a voice tell him to stay. They came to talk about change. They stayed for what change costs.

Expect Theseus’s ship and fart jokes in the same breath. Expect grief handled with startling tenderness and a roast that makes a grown man blush on camera. Expect the kind of unguarded, no-off-the-air honesty that only happens when the right people find each other—about coming out, about transition, about the families we lose and the ones we build, about the gift you keep waiting for permission to give yourself. By the end someone gets crowned an honorary lesbian, and it makes complete sense. This is one of the last full episodes before the summer break. You’ll want to have been in the room.

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